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Posted in Relationships, Sex Life
February 20, 2018

Why threesomes can be dangerous for your relationship?

Chances are that if you asked any man in a stable relationship if he would like to try a threesome, he’d shout “YES!” Males typically fantasize about being with two women at the same time. However, the same cannot be said for women; especially if they are in a committed relationship. This brings the question of why threesomes can be dangerous for your relationship to the forefront.

Although you can find a few things to gain from having a 3 some, the negatives behind them far outweigh the good. In some instances, just bringing up the idea can lead to problems for couples. For one, you have to decide on who it is you are going to bring into your bedroom. Is it someone you known for a long time or a complete stranger? In the event you decide to go with a friend, could the liaison lead to things being weird between you later?

For those that decide to go with someone they hardly know, the troubles could just be beginning. If you go with a stranger you met online, you could end up with a crazy psycho at your doorsteps. Even if they are not crazy, you will have to deal with the awkwardness of the conversation. Once you get passed that stage, the initiation process could then become even more uncomfortable. Having sex between two people is easy and doesn’t really require much planning. Most of the stuff happens automatically without coordination. But, that is not the way it works out when there are 3 people in a bed. Some may argue that this is a simple process once you get going. Yet countless of people who have done 3-somes have explained the things which went wrong.

Putting all of those factors aside, if you managed to move past them, then there’s the competition issue. Your spouse could end up comparing herself to the other person. Are her boobs bigger than hers? Is her body more perfect or is her face much prettier? If it’s a third man, the issue of penis size will surely come into play. Bringing another male into your bedroom with a bigger penis than your mate could mean devastation for him. Even having a guy with a hotter body than your spouse will also trigger problems. Every threesome always brings up comparison between the two members of the same sex.

In case you went through the entire threesome and got it over and done with, there’s the after effect. Running into the person you had the three-way with could be very awkward. Another reason could be that one of you will likely end up loving sex between 3 people. In the event that happens, it could only mean doom for your relationship. That’s because having one person alone in bed won’t be enough for you anymore. Lastly, there are those who have tried it to only have their spouse run off with the person they invited into their bedroom.

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